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Title: Prayers needed for my Dad
Post by: SPD748 on September 03, 2014, 07:33:49 PM
My Dad's health has been failing steadily for the past few months. I've been begging him to just move in with me so that I can care for him the way he's cared for me for so many years. Today, he finally caved in and came home with me. He and I both know that this will probably be the last move he will make. It's hard so see him suffer but it's harder to know that he's suffering alone. Anyway, he's with me now and I'll do everything I can to make sure what time he has left is the finest hour of his life. For those that pray, please pray for my Dad.

Thank you and may God bless us all.

-lee
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Post by: Magicman on September 03, 2014, 07:42:01 PM
My prayers are for both you and your Dad.  So many of us have been and are still caregivers in one form or the other.
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Post by: sumday on September 03, 2014, 07:47:49 PM
Praying for you both. Really enjoyed reading about you two working together on your mill build. Good to see you taking care of him.
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Post by: POSTON WIDEHEAD on September 03, 2014, 07:48:26 PM
What a "fun" time you and your Dad had building your circle mill! Wow!  8)
Although his health is declining.....cherish each moment you have with him...... and you get to spend even more time with him now.
Some guys are not this lucky.
If you need me Lee....I can be there in 35 minutes.
Praying for you both Buddy.  smiley_thumbsup
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Post by: beenthere on September 03, 2014, 08:01:42 PM
Prayers for "Dad".  Going up.

I wanted my Dad to do that too, but he wouldn't give in.
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Post by: Chuck White on September 03, 2014, 08:05:21 PM
Our prayers are with you and your dad!

A very noble thing you've done Lee, getting dad to move in with you!
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Post by: clww on September 03, 2014, 08:10:17 PM
Prayers sent up for you and your Dad both.
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Post by: thecfarm on September 03, 2014, 08:30:20 PM
This might be the best time you will ever have with your Dad.  ;D
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Post by: WmFritz on September 03, 2014, 08:44:08 PM
Glad to hear you'll be keeping your Dad company. I think it will be good for both of you.
Prayers coming your Dads way.
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Post by: kczbest on September 03, 2014, 09:17:11 PM
My Family will be Praying for you and your Dad.
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Post by: scleigh on September 03, 2014, 09:49:18 PM
Lee,
I'm in Shelby everyday. If I can help with anything , please let me know.
If dad ever wants to take a ride, bring him up to Lawndale and we'll hangout for a while.
You both are in my prayers.
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Post by: WDH on September 03, 2014, 09:54:59 PM
You are a good man. 
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Post by: sandhills on September 03, 2014, 10:02:49 PM
Prayers from us here in Nebraska as well, I've also enjoyed your sawmill build together.  Please let him know how many people are thinking of him now.
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Post by: yukon cornelius on September 03, 2014, 10:11:33 PM
you and your dad are in my prayers!
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Post by: coxy on September 03, 2014, 10:15:23 PM
my thoughts are with you and your dad  I know how hard it is to go through    glad he came home with you
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Post by: fat olde elf on September 04, 2014, 12:33:01 AM
Good work !  I did not have a chance like that with my dad. Still miss him after 36 years.  Say your prayers............
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Post by: giant splinter on September 04, 2014, 05:02:05 AM
Lee,
Count me in, after following your mill build I think a lot of us have gained a great deal of respect for your Dad and the way he hung in there and turned out an incredible sawmill with his background and "gearhead" knowledge, you both I am sure are very happy with the way it turned out and the journey was a great story in itself. My prayers are with you both and having him there is the best thing for both of you.
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Post by: Bert on September 04, 2014, 06:30:58 AM
Your frick mill journey really hit home for me. Like you, my father and I work together on many many projects and run a similar mill for business. Its hard to see him age and not be able to do what he once did. Your father is my prayers, I am very sorry to hear of his health condition.
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Post by: Seaman on September 04, 2014, 07:10:50 AM
Lee, praying for you and Dad.
Frank
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Post by: Buddyw on September 04, 2014, 07:31:42 AM
Prayers sent.
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Post by: petefrom bearswamp on September 04, 2014, 08:54:59 AM
Prayers coming from the swamp.
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Post by: Sawyer697 on September 04, 2014, 08:59:58 AM
Prayers for Dad, that He may have peace in the Lord. That He may rest in Him. We all come to this point in life. But we may face it with Hope in Jesus.
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Post by: red on September 04, 2014, 11:39:48 AM
Gorilla Glue is for the Toughest Jobs on Planet Earth
You are doing the Most Important Job in the Universe
Thoughts n Prayers
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Post by: Bill Gaiche on September 04, 2014, 02:24:11 PM
You had done the ultimate thing by bringing your dad into your home. Bless the both of you. bg
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Post by: downsouth on September 04, 2014, 03:46:14 PM
I think everyone on the forum followed you guys building that mill, and to have his knowledge along the way was a blessing for all of us.
   So many people get lost in careers and kids and life in general, and forget about the people that raised us. It is great to hear he is with you, and not at home alone, or worse, stuck in a home.
  Both of you guys have my prayers.
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Post by: Warbird on September 04, 2014, 04:01:19 PM
Done.
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Post by: wesdor on September 04, 2014, 06:17:28 PM
Prayers for both of you.  Be sure and tell him all the good memories while he is still here.
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Post by: mometal77 on September 05, 2014, 06:04:36 AM
I hope he gets better.  My mum is stubborn too and it is hard to convince otherwise.  Prayers ....
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Post by: slider on September 05, 2014, 12:04:56 PM
Lee I have so much enjoyed your post while you and your dad worked together.Like Danny said you are a good man.Al
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Post by: Left Coast Chris on September 05, 2014, 09:42:49 PM
Prayers going your Dad's way.
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Post by: hardtailjohn on September 06, 2014, 01:02:54 PM
Lee, I just went through this with my Dad, so my heart goes out to you!  You're doing the right thing, and you're going to have the closest times with him now. I can't tell you how much it means to be able to "give back" to them. My Dad and I never had that relationship you and your Dad have, and I know how much closer we became at the end, and how much it meant to me to be able to give him that dignity and respect to be able to be home. God bless you both, it's a tough road, but well worth it! Read the "caregivers" thread...some great advice in there too.
I'm always willing to listen if you need a set of ears,
John
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Post by: timberlinetree on September 07, 2014, 06:58:15 AM
Prayers for your dad and family.
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Post by: Martha White Nelson on September 07, 2014, 10:25:46 AM
I am praying for your Dad and for you.  I was caring for my Dad after he had a mini-stroke. For some time, he had trouble remembering things, but one evening, he came very lucid and wanted to talk.  I urged him to tell the old stories about when he was in the Navy during WW2. I wrote as he was telling, and these storied are now published in a book about the smallest of ships used by the Navy, the LCS class, or the Landing Craft Support.  I also filmed him playing his guitar for the last time.  I wouldn't take gold for the time we spent together, or these precious memories of him.