And most importantly, it is easy to kill someone you hate. It is incredibly difficult to love them, but that is what the bible tells us to do. Psalm 110 tells us to sit at the fathers right hand until he makes our enemies our footstool. The most difficult and yet transformational thing i have ever done in my life is pray for my enemies. You dont get His blessings until he gets your obedience. The bible also tells us rejected blessings bounce back on the sender. So bless those who would spit in your face as often as you can.